I was on the sea and surfing on an object I dont know how to describe. I was having a lot of fun. Then I met a woman-figure that criticized me. I had to run up and down a hill and through a landscape. She was still not happy with me. Suddenly I was on the water again surfing. I sent a video to my x named ‘Reidar’. I missed him. He replied short and I saw a film in my mind of what he then told me. He had been promised to a girl.. named Elisabeth. Her father named ‘Teshud’. They were Jews. They were going to get married next summer, but they were not engaged. He was 49 years old (in reality now he is 53).
Your dream contains a rich tapestry of elements that can be unpacked to reveal deeper meanings and insights about your emotional state, relationships, and personal growth.
Water in dreams often symbolizes emotions and the unconscious. Surfing on the water signifies a sense of adventure and joy in navigating your feelings. The fact you were surfing on an unidentifiable object could represent an experience or path in life that feels unfamiliar to you, but that you are still having fun exploring. This part of the dream suggests that, despite uncertainties, you are open to the flow of life and willing to embrace new experiences.
The woman-figure who criticized you may symbolize an aspect of yourself or an external influence that brings self-doubt or judgment. She represents societal expectations or internalized beliefs that may lead to self-criticism. Running up and down the hill can signify struggles and challenges you are facing, possibly related to the opinions of others or your own feelings of inadequacy. This aspect of the dream highlights the tension between your desire for enjoyment and the pressure to meet certain standards, potentially reflecting ongoing personal conflicts.
The act of running through different landscapes can indicate a journey of self-discovery. It may show your attempts to evade criticism or to escape feelings of inadequacy. The transition through different terrains also suggests that you are navigating changes in your life or feelings, which can involve various emotional states, from joy (surfing) to stress (running).
Sending a video to your ex, Reidar, underscores a lingering emotional connection and possibly unresolved feelings toward him. The act of reaching out indicates a desire for reconnection or validation from someone who once held significant importance in your life. The short reply and mental image of his story imply that you may be sensing his emotional distance or commitment elsewhere, particularly with the mention of Elisabeth and her father, Teshud.
Elisabeth and her father’s names introduce cultural dimensions and grounding in reality. They may signify a new chapter in Reidar's life that feels out of reach for you, further intensifying feelings of loss or the passage of time. Their Jewish identity might also indicate themes of tradition, family, and commitment, suggesting that you perceive his connection to Elisabeth as a more serious and traditional bond than what you had.
Overall, this dream reflects your current emotional landscape—a combination of joy, self-exploration, and unresolved feelings related to your past relationship. It invites you to consider how you navigate your emotions and the influence of others on your self-perception. Perhaps it suggests the importance of letting go of judgments, whether from yourself or others, so you can fully embrace your journey and future experiences. It may also signify a need to find closure with Reidar, allowing space for new opportunities in your personal life.